last week my grandma and grandpa came down from oklahoma to help me install my irrigation system (sprinklers to all you lay people out there). it was a really big job and i knew i would not only need physical help but mental help as well. my grandpa has been in construction all of his life so i knew he would be able to see the bigger picture by looking at my plans and all the little connectors and sticks of pvc.
as we were working on the project i realized that the greatest value to me personally had nothing to do with sprinklers. the greatest value was in the time spent with my grandparents. for whatever reason i have been thinking a great deal about time lately. it is becoming clearer and clearer to me that time is not a renewable resource. it is not something that we can simply purchase more of or borrow from others. time is a gift.
as we were trenching the ground, gluing the pvc and shoveling endless amounts of dirt it became quite clear that we weren't just installing a sprinkler system....we were making memories. as time continues to roll on i will always have my grandparents fingerprints not only on my house but also on my heart.
how long has it been since you were intentional about making some memories? time is slipping away so let me encourage you to make it happen.....today!
Monday, May 11, 2009
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
the king's primary responsiblity
we are about to start a new series at cLife that focuses on the relevance and reliability of the scriptures. i ran across this blog by mark batterson that i thought was thought provoking. i hope you do as well...
I know I'm fixated on Bible reading right now. But I make no apologies for it. There is no substitute. You've got to read the Bible and you've got to let the Bible read you. Came across a verse that has always fascinated me in Deuteronomy 17. The Lord instructed the King to "make a copy of the law" in the presence of the Levitical priests. He was told to "keep it at his side at all times." Who knows? Maybe he even slept with it. And he was told to "study it everyday." Interesting isn't it? Studying the law was the King's primary responsibility. I have no idea how long it took to copy the law. But here's my question: why copy it? You're a king. You're busy. You have servants. Why not let someone copy it for you. Why did God insist on him copying it? Because that way it was in his own handwriting. So he had his own personal copy of the law. And he was told to keep it at his side at all times. If we interpret that literally, then we ate with it, rode with it, slept with it, fought with it, and ruled with it.Finally, he was told to study it everyday. No other spiritual discipline is more vital to your spiritual growth that daily Bible study. Period. It has to be a daily routine. By the way, here is a little factoid that Braveheart fans will love. Did you know that William Wallace never went anyplace without his boyhood friend and personal chaplain, John Blair. In addition, he always carried his personal copy of the Scriptures with him.
I know I'm fixated on Bible reading right now. But I make no apologies for it. There is no substitute. You've got to read the Bible and you've got to let the Bible read you. Came across a verse that has always fascinated me in Deuteronomy 17. The Lord instructed the King to "make a copy of the law" in the presence of the Levitical priests. He was told to "keep it at his side at all times." Who knows? Maybe he even slept with it. And he was told to "study it everyday." Interesting isn't it? Studying the law was the King's primary responsibility. I have no idea how long it took to copy the law. But here's my question: why copy it? You're a king. You're busy. You have servants. Why not let someone copy it for you. Why did God insist on him copying it? Because that way it was in his own handwriting. So he had his own personal copy of the law. And he was told to keep it at his side at all times. If we interpret that literally, then we ate with it, rode with it, slept with it, fought with it, and ruled with it.Finally, he was told to study it everyday. No other spiritual discipline is more vital to your spiritual growth that daily Bible study. Period. It has to be a daily routine. By the way, here is a little factoid that Braveheart fans will love. Did you know that William Wallace never went anyplace without his boyhood friend and personal chaplain, John Blair. In addition, he always carried his personal copy of the Scriptures with him.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
the team
our staff had a great day today just enjoying each other and having fun. after a great easter weekend with well over 1500 people on our campus we decided everyone was due a day to just play. we started off the day by taking staff pictures and having a brief team meeting. after the "business" was taken care of we ate lunch at a hibachi grill, played laser tag, air hockey, dance dance revolution and who all knows what else before finishing off our time together at bahama bucks! whew....it was a blast! a couple of take aways for you and your team/family...
1. if you focus only on your goals/destination you will miss the scenary of right now. i think it is vital that teams set aside time to play together. honestly, i'm not sure we do it enough. when we get to the end of our lives if all we know for sure is we made it...but can't remember having fun along the way....what a shame.
2. don't take yourself too seriously. some people are better at eating bahama bucks than they are at playing laser tag. these outings give everyone a chance to "do their thing."
3. there is something very refreshing about playing whirlyball or laser tag with your team. in these settings people are able to allow their inner kid to come out....and creativity/bonding/trust are all developed. if you're thinking: we can't afford to do something like that in my office/home i would suggest you can't afford not to!
do something crazy....budget in a little time and money to do something fun. it may be a real difference maker in the morale of your team and your effectiveness.
1. if you focus only on your goals/destination you will miss the scenary of right now. i think it is vital that teams set aside time to play together. honestly, i'm not sure we do it enough. when we get to the end of our lives if all we know for sure is we made it...but can't remember having fun along the way....what a shame.
2. don't take yourself too seriously. some people are better at eating bahama bucks than they are at playing laser tag. these outings give everyone a chance to "do their thing."
3. there is something very refreshing about playing whirlyball or laser tag with your team. in these settings people are able to allow their inner kid to come out....and creativity/bonding/trust are all developed. if you're thinking: we can't afford to do something like that in my office/home i would suggest you can't afford not to!
do something crazy....budget in a little time and money to do something fun. it may be a real difference maker in the morale of your team and your effectiveness.
Monday, April 13, 2009
bunny dilemma
ok.....looking for a little feedback on this one. if you do not have a google account and are unable to leave a moderated comment on the blog feel free to e-mail me directly at rwade@clifec.com.
yesterday my family was driving home from lunch when my daughter asked: why didn't the Easter bunny bring me anything this year? i asked why she thought the easter bunny was going to bring her something and she responded "because a lot of my friends at church said the easter bunny brought them some fun stuff!"
over the past couple of years i have grown increasingly uncomfortable with the whole idea of perpetuating the mythical figures our culture has produced over the years. from santa claus to the tooth fairy it seems like everytime i turn around i am being asked to lie to my kids. i am all for feeding their creativity and allowing them to be children. i want them to be able to look back and know that they experienced the fullness of being a child. however, i also want them to know that i lived by the same virtues i instilled in them....namely the virtue of honesty.
i know that billions of children throughout the course of history have not only believed in the fictional characters but eventually came to the understanding that they weren't real and managed to carry on fully functional and productive lives. my concern isn't with scarring them emotionally. i just doon't want to create any obstacles that might keep them from believing me when i tell them about Jesus. let's face it....believing in His story requires a full-throttle faith.
if i tell my kids that they will be rewarded for being good (santa) am i also teaching them that in some way good works will earn them the reward of salvation? if i teach them that there is a fairy that will visit their room after they lose a tooth and that there is a bunny that brings them gifts on easter and a jolly old man that mysteriously makes it down the chimney pipe at Christmas (none of which are true) am i also making it more difficult for them to believe that there is a God in heaven who loved them so much that He sent His only son to die on a cross for their sins? will they find it hard to believe that this same Jesus that dies for their sins was raised from the dead so that they too could defeat the burden and consequence of sin?
i know some of the responses that may be headed my way:
1. it is the spirit that draws people into an understanding of who God is so my kids, Lord willing, will be drawn into that relationship regardless of what I may or may not teach them.
2. lighten up wade! it's just harmless stories that allow kids to be creative and to imagine!
3. that is your decision as a parent....just tell your kids not to ruin it for mine :-)
4. it won't affect them negativel and your not really "lying" to them....your just playing along with their childish ways.
any thoughts????
yesterday my family was driving home from lunch when my daughter asked: why didn't the Easter bunny bring me anything this year? i asked why she thought the easter bunny was going to bring her something and she responded "because a lot of my friends at church said the easter bunny brought them some fun stuff!"
over the past couple of years i have grown increasingly uncomfortable with the whole idea of perpetuating the mythical figures our culture has produced over the years. from santa claus to the tooth fairy it seems like everytime i turn around i am being asked to lie to my kids. i am all for feeding their creativity and allowing them to be children. i want them to be able to look back and know that they experienced the fullness of being a child. however, i also want them to know that i lived by the same virtues i instilled in them....namely the virtue of honesty.
i know that billions of children throughout the course of history have not only believed in the fictional characters but eventually came to the understanding that they weren't real and managed to carry on fully functional and productive lives. my concern isn't with scarring them emotionally. i just doon't want to create any obstacles that might keep them from believing me when i tell them about Jesus. let's face it....believing in His story requires a full-throttle faith.
if i tell my kids that they will be rewarded for being good (santa) am i also teaching them that in some way good works will earn them the reward of salvation? if i teach them that there is a fairy that will visit their room after they lose a tooth and that there is a bunny that brings them gifts on easter and a jolly old man that mysteriously makes it down the chimney pipe at Christmas (none of which are true) am i also making it more difficult for them to believe that there is a God in heaven who loved them so much that He sent His only son to die on a cross for their sins? will they find it hard to believe that this same Jesus that dies for their sins was raised from the dead so that they too could defeat the burden and consequence of sin?
i know some of the responses that may be headed my way:
1. it is the spirit that draws people into an understanding of who God is so my kids, Lord willing, will be drawn into that relationship regardless of what I may or may not teach them.
2. lighten up wade! it's just harmless stories that allow kids to be creative and to imagine!
3. that is your decision as a parent....just tell your kids not to ruin it for mine :-)
4. it won't affect them negativel and your not really "lying" to them....your just playing along with their childish ways.
any thoughts????
Sunday, April 12, 2009
overwhelmed
three years ago God gave me and a couple of my friends an opportunity to start a new church. we were scared to death but knew, without any doubt, that God was prompting us to find a school and start a new local church body in forney. many people asked why we thought we needed to go to forney. some would even ask "aren't there already enough churches in the area?" there were times when i didn't know how to respond to that question. sure...there were probably enough churches but we couldn't shake the reality that God was leading us to start something new.
the vision of cLife was going to be simple: connecting people to God and one another. nothing really fancy huh?!? that was it....we sensed that God was going to do something big in the lives of people and we trusted that it wouldn't be limited only to the people in forney but that it would reach well beyond geographical boundaries and impact the lives of many from many different places.
i'm overwhelmed because God has blown away all of my expectations. people are coming from all over....mesquite, sunnyvale, forney, heath, rockwall, wills point, canton, kaufman, combine, crandall and the list goes on and on. people have caught the global vision and donated financially to dig water wells in remote villages in third world countries, helped to build a church in africa and launch a new children's home in guatemala. marriages have been restored, people have found freedom from the oppression of the financial situations and many have crossed the line of faith....stepping from darkness into light because of the shed blood of Christ on the cross.
as i looked at all the people who came to cLife today i was overwhelmed by the stories that God has allowed me to see unfold over the course of the last 3 years. overwhelmed because He has exceeded my limited expectations of what He was calling me to be a part of just a few years ago.
what is He calling you to? what is it that God is leading you to do or become that will require some sacrifice on your part? i can't promise that He will meet or exceed your worldly desires but can guarantee you that you will not regret stepping in His direction. i know i haven't.
the vision of cLife was going to be simple: connecting people to God and one another. nothing really fancy huh?!? that was it....we sensed that God was going to do something big in the lives of people and we trusted that it wouldn't be limited only to the people in forney but that it would reach well beyond geographical boundaries and impact the lives of many from many different places.
i'm overwhelmed because God has blown away all of my expectations. people are coming from all over....mesquite, sunnyvale, forney, heath, rockwall, wills point, canton, kaufman, combine, crandall and the list goes on and on. people have caught the global vision and donated financially to dig water wells in remote villages in third world countries, helped to build a church in africa and launch a new children's home in guatemala. marriages have been restored, people have found freedom from the oppression of the financial situations and many have crossed the line of faith....stepping from darkness into light because of the shed blood of Christ on the cross.
as i looked at all the people who came to cLife today i was overwhelmed by the stories that God has allowed me to see unfold over the course of the last 3 years. overwhelmed because He has exceeded my limited expectations of what He was calling me to be a part of just a few years ago.
what is He calling you to? what is it that God is leading you to do or become that will require some sacrifice on your part? i can't promise that He will meet or exceed your worldly desires but can guarantee you that you will not regret stepping in His direction. i know i haven't.
easter
i have oftentimes been referred to as the "debbie downer" in my social circles. it seems like anytime someone shares something as a celebration i have the unique ability to ....listen for the wah - wah sound....turn it into a negative. i have determined that i am not going to do that with easter. why? because there is nothing negative about it at all! it is a great reminder to me and other believers all over the world that JESUS IS ALIVE!!!
i know that He was alive yesterday and will still be alive tomorrow but there is something special about having a day when the world turns its attention to God's story. even skeptics are forced to at very least overhear our conversation about the God who sent His son to die on a cruel cross only to be raised from the dead.....which brings us the victory!
if easter seems like it has become a little "over done" by preachers and churches i want to encourage you go back to that place when you first tasted the goodness of God. why? because when you get to that place i am confident you will be reminded why we celebrate.
will He be alive tomorrow? yep! will He be alive 6 months from now? yep! should we as Christians celebrate His resurreection on a daily basis? yep! should we do everything we can to take full advantage of the opportunity that exists to speak the truth of the life changing promise of God into lives today? you bet we should!
i hope your Easter is a happy one....because He lives!
i know that He was alive yesterday and will still be alive tomorrow but there is something special about having a day when the world turns its attention to God's story. even skeptics are forced to at very least overhear our conversation about the God who sent His son to die on a cruel cross only to be raised from the dead.....which brings us the victory!
if easter seems like it has become a little "over done" by preachers and churches i want to encourage you go back to that place when you first tasted the goodness of God. why? because when you get to that place i am confident you will be reminded why we celebrate.
will He be alive tomorrow? yep! will He be alive 6 months from now? yep! should we as Christians celebrate His resurreection on a daily basis? yep! should we do everything we can to take full advantage of the opportunity that exists to speak the truth of the life changing promise of God into lives today? you bet we should!
i hope your Easter is a happy one....because He lives!
Friday, April 10, 2009
good friday
in our current culture it is really hard to grasp the tension that this day respresents for Christians. in north america we really do not have to suffer for our faith....certainly not to the degree that Jesus did over 2000 years ago. good friday creates a tension because to really observe this holiday we are forced to grapple with the darkness that came over all of creation when Christ was nailed to the cross. to see our hero beaten beyond the point of recognition is terrifying....he was supposed to be the savior. to see him carry his own cross up the side of golgotha isn't the way it was supposed to be....he had already carried so much for us on his shoulders. to see him nailed to a cross and mocked was sickening....he didn't deserve any of it.
i hope as you move into this easter weekend you will pause at least for a moment today and REMEMBER what this day represents. luckily we know how the story ends so there is peace. however, if we ever get too far away from the truth of what preceded the resurrection we might just miss the point.
1 Who has believed what he has heard from us? And to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed?2For he grew up before him like a young plant, and like a root out of dry ground; he had no form or majesty that we should look at him, and no beauty that we should desire him.3 He was despised and rejected by men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and esteemed him not.
4 Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows;yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted.5 But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities;upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed.6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all.
7He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so he opened not his mouth.8By oppression and judgment he was taken away; and as for his generation, who consideredthat he was cut off out of the land of the living, stricken for the transgression of my people?9And they made his grave with the wicked and with a rich man in his death,although he had done no violence, and there was no deceit in his mouth.
10Yet it was the will of the LORD to crush him; he has put him to grief; when his soul makes an offering for guilt, he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days; the will of the LORD shall prosper in his hand. 11Out of the anguish of his soul he shall see and be satisfied;by his knowledge shall the righteous one, my servant, make many to be accounted righteous and he shall bear their iniquities.12 Therefore I will divide him a portion with the many, and he shall divide the spoil with the strong, because he poured out his soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors; yet he bore the sin of many, and makes intercession for the transgressors.
Isaiah 53
i hope as you move into this easter weekend you will pause at least for a moment today and REMEMBER what this day represents. luckily we know how the story ends so there is peace. however, if we ever get too far away from the truth of what preceded the resurrection we might just miss the point.
1 Who has believed what he has heard from us? And to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed?2For he grew up before him like a young plant, and like a root out of dry ground; he had no form or majesty that we should look at him, and no beauty that we should desire him.3 He was despised and rejected by men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and esteemed him not.
4 Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows;yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted.5 But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities;upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed.6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all.
7He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so he opened not his mouth.8By oppression and judgment he was taken away; and as for his generation, who consideredthat he was cut off out of the land of the living, stricken for the transgression of my people?9And they made his grave with the wicked and with a rich man in his death,although he had done no violence, and there was no deceit in his mouth.
10Yet it was the will of the LORD to crush him; he has put him to grief; when his soul makes an offering for guilt, he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days; the will of the LORD shall prosper in his hand. 11Out of the anguish of his soul he shall see and be satisfied;by his knowledge shall the righteous one, my servant, make many to be accounted righteous and he shall bear their iniquities.12 Therefore I will divide him a portion with the many, and he shall divide the spoil with the strong, because he poured out his soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors; yet he bore the sin of many, and makes intercession for the transgressors.
Isaiah 53
Sunday, March 29, 2009
i do....
this weekend marlo and i went to a marriage retreat hosted by our church. it was our first marriage retreat we've attended in our 12 years of marriage. as i left the retreat i couldn't help but think....we should do this more often. marlo and i have a great marriage by all accounts but there were some things that really stood out to me. below are a few of the take aways i had from the event.
1. i invest a lot more time and resources getting better at my job than i do investing in my marriage. i have one conference i go to every year (for the past 7 years) that has become a non-negotiable for me. it is a given that i will pack a bag every October and fly to Atlanta for catalyst. as we sat through the seminar this weekend it became so clear that i need to invest more time, energy and resources on my marriage.
2. what happened to my chivalry? i treated my girlfriend and my fiance with a lot more respect than i treat my wife. i used to open doors for her....not so much anymore. i used to comment on her beautiful eyes...haven't done that in ages. i used to have really meaningful spiritual dialogue with her..... this list could go on and on but you probably get the picture. i need to relearn how to "date" my wife.
3. my marriage is a huge part of my witness. like i said earlier....marlo and i really have a great marriage. our friends wonder why we never seem to fight or get really mad at each other so in many ways i think our witness is safe there. however, i wonder if my kids see us as a team when it comes to teaching them how to serve God and love others. i think i "do ministry" all day and have a tendency to drop the ball when it comes to planning opportunities for our family to serve the Lord by serving people. we're going to fix that problem asap.
if you are married and haven't been intentional about investing in your marriage....do it. marriages are under attack. at my home church we have a saying "if we don't win at home....we don't win at all." i pray you are winning at home and if you're not....i pray you seek the help you need.
1. i invest a lot more time and resources getting better at my job than i do investing in my marriage. i have one conference i go to every year (for the past 7 years) that has become a non-negotiable for me. it is a given that i will pack a bag every October and fly to Atlanta for catalyst. as we sat through the seminar this weekend it became so clear that i need to invest more time, energy and resources on my marriage.
2. what happened to my chivalry? i treated my girlfriend and my fiance with a lot more respect than i treat my wife. i used to open doors for her....not so much anymore. i used to comment on her beautiful eyes...haven't done that in ages. i used to have really meaningful spiritual dialogue with her..... this list could go on and on but you probably get the picture. i need to relearn how to "date" my wife.
3. my marriage is a huge part of my witness. like i said earlier....marlo and i really have a great marriage. our friends wonder why we never seem to fight or get really mad at each other so in many ways i think our witness is safe there. however, i wonder if my kids see us as a team when it comes to teaching them how to serve God and love others. i think i "do ministry" all day and have a tendency to drop the ball when it comes to planning opportunities for our family to serve the Lord by serving people. we're going to fix that problem asap.
if you are married and haven't been intentional about investing in your marriage....do it. marriages are under attack. at my home church we have a saying "if we don't win at home....we don't win at all." i pray you are winning at home and if you're not....i pray you seek the help you need.
Monday, March 23, 2009
fishing poles and smores
last week my family took a few days to go to the Lake Bob Sandlin State Park in Pittsburg Texas. we stayed in my parents motor coach so it wasn't exactly "roughing it" but it did get us out of our element. as i have reflected back on the time we had at the park i am left with several impressions.
1. time flies...enjoy it while you can. i heard a friend a few weeks ago make the observation that most people spend all of their lives working towards retirement with the hope that they will enter their twilight years able to travel and spend time with family. sadly many people enter their twilight years with either too little cash or families that are too busy to spend time with them. i couldn't help but think our time at the park was time well spent.
2. you don't have to catch a fish to enjoy fishing....we had a great time just throwing a hook in the water. my 6 yr old got bored pretty quickly and my 2 yr old didn't even know there wasn't a hook on the end of his line but they had a blast.
3. smores are more than a dessert....time around a camp fire does something for your soul. not sure how to explain it but it does.
4. making priceless memories doesn't have to cost a fortune....we didn't spend very much money at all on our little excursion but we harvested memories that will last a lifetime.
it was a great spring break. if you haven't taken some time off to be intentional about doing nothing more than investing in your family in a while let me encourage you to do so asap. you won't regret it.
1. time flies...enjoy it while you can. i heard a friend a few weeks ago make the observation that most people spend all of their lives working towards retirement with the hope that they will enter their twilight years able to travel and spend time with family. sadly many people enter their twilight years with either too little cash or families that are too busy to spend time with them. i couldn't help but think our time at the park was time well spent.
2. you don't have to catch a fish to enjoy fishing....we had a great time just throwing a hook in the water. my 6 yr old got bored pretty quickly and my 2 yr old didn't even know there wasn't a hook on the end of his line but they had a blast.
3. smores are more than a dessert....time around a camp fire does something for your soul. not sure how to explain it but it does.
4. making priceless memories doesn't have to cost a fortune....we didn't spend very much money at all on our little excursion but we harvested memories that will last a lifetime.
it was a great spring break. if you haven't taken some time off to be intentional about doing nothing more than investing in your family in a while let me encourage you to do so asap. you won't regret it.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
open house
gee whiz....it has been too long since i last blogged. if you are still reading this thing i really appreciate your patience with me.
last thursday night we went to my 1st graders open house at school. i love open house. it is so cool to see my daughter light up when she is telling us about her work and showing us around her classroom. you would think she was starring in an episode of "cribs" when she is showing us her desk! it is so cool!
one of the things that caught my attention this year was a side by side comparison of her writing skills since the first day of school. on a piece of posterboard the teacher had a sheet on the left that showed how she spelled (or rather mispelled) her name on day one. her penmanship was lacking....she gets that from her dad!! on the right side of the posterboard was a sheet of paper that she had completed that week. she has not only spelled her name correctly but her penmanship was very precise. it was really unbelievable how much she had sharpened those skills in a relatively short amount of time.
the next morning i was reading through a chapter in the book of Jeremiah. i couldn't help but wonder what my spiritual life would look like if you could view my life/motives/thoughts/habits/knowledge of the word on the day i crossed the line of faith and compare it to today...
have i grown in my faith? have i gained a more precise understanding of the word of God? am i better able to articulate His truth today than i was back then? what areas of my life/motives/thoughts and etc have remained basically the same....or even perhaps regressed a bit?
why has her penmanship improved so much? because she focuses on it every day. at least 5 days a week she is sitting at a desk with pencil and paper and practicing writing the same letters over and over. she is beginning to see how those letters lead to thoughts and how thoughts lead to imagination and how imagination leads to creativity and how creativity leads to actions. as a result she continues to practice....to learn....
how about you? what have you been practicing/thinking about/ studying/craving lately? maybe our voice as believers would be louder in our culture if people saw us progressively getting stronger in our faith.
let's pray for each other....
last thursday night we went to my 1st graders open house at school. i love open house. it is so cool to see my daughter light up when she is telling us about her work and showing us around her classroom. you would think she was starring in an episode of "cribs" when she is showing us her desk! it is so cool!
one of the things that caught my attention this year was a side by side comparison of her writing skills since the first day of school. on a piece of posterboard the teacher had a sheet on the left that showed how she spelled (or rather mispelled) her name on day one. her penmanship was lacking....she gets that from her dad!! on the right side of the posterboard was a sheet of paper that she had completed that week. she has not only spelled her name correctly but her penmanship was very precise. it was really unbelievable how much she had sharpened those skills in a relatively short amount of time.
the next morning i was reading through a chapter in the book of Jeremiah. i couldn't help but wonder what my spiritual life would look like if you could view my life/motives/thoughts/habits/knowledge of the word on the day i crossed the line of faith and compare it to today...
have i grown in my faith? have i gained a more precise understanding of the word of God? am i better able to articulate His truth today than i was back then? what areas of my life/motives/thoughts and etc have remained basically the same....or even perhaps regressed a bit?
why has her penmanship improved so much? because she focuses on it every day. at least 5 days a week she is sitting at a desk with pencil and paper and practicing writing the same letters over and over. she is beginning to see how those letters lead to thoughts and how thoughts lead to imagination and how imagination leads to creativity and how creativity leads to actions. as a result she continues to practice....to learn....
how about you? what have you been practicing/thinking about/ studying/craving lately? maybe our voice as believers would be louder in our culture if people saw us progressively getting stronger in our faith.
let's pray for each other....
Sunday, March 1, 2009
twist and shout
last night i had the opportunity to go to our church's "daddy daughter dance" with my 6 year old sydney. it was a blast! i'm not a very good dancer but i felt like there were a couple of reasons why i should go in spite of my limitations.
1. it was a great, no brainer, way to spend some one on one time with my daughter.
2. it provided a good opportunity to start showing her how a gentleman should treat her when she starts dating (in 30 years of course).
3. it was a neat way to support an event sponsored by our church.
by the end of the night i felt like we had accomplished all 3 things. she and her mom worked to get her hair just right (cool bonding time for them), i picked her up at her house, presented her with a corsage, opened & closed the door for her, we went to dinner with friends and then danced until the final song was played. for a couple of hours she got every bit of my attention. it was so much fun!
as i reflect back on the event i realized a couple of things i am really thankful for so i thought i would share them in this blog. i'm trying to get better at recognizing my reasons to be thankful....
1. i'm thankful for a wife that loves me and encourages me to be the best dad i can be.
2. i'm thankful for a little girl who like to hangout with her dad.
3. i'm thankful for a church that has a vision for healthy families.
4. i'm thankful for parents who modeled what it means to be involved in their kids lives. my mom and dad never missed a single event, recital, tennis, game, or any other opportunity to support me. i know what it looks like to be more interested in family than in a bank account. they continue to model that even today as they actively and consistently engage my kids.
it was a good night indeed.
1. it was a great, no brainer, way to spend some one on one time with my daughter.
2. it provided a good opportunity to start showing her how a gentleman should treat her when she starts dating (in 30 years of course).
3. it was a neat way to support an event sponsored by our church.
by the end of the night i felt like we had accomplished all 3 things. she and her mom worked to get her hair just right (cool bonding time for them), i picked her up at her house, presented her with a corsage, opened & closed the door for her, we went to dinner with friends and then danced until the final song was played. for a couple of hours she got every bit of my attention. it was so much fun!
as i reflect back on the event i realized a couple of things i am really thankful for so i thought i would share them in this blog. i'm trying to get better at recognizing my reasons to be thankful....
1. i'm thankful for a wife that loves me and encourages me to be the best dad i can be.
2. i'm thankful for a little girl who like to hangout with her dad.
3. i'm thankful for a church that has a vision for healthy families.
4. i'm thankful for parents who modeled what it means to be involved in their kids lives. my mom and dad never missed a single event, recital, tennis, game, or any other opportunity to support me. i know what it looks like to be more interested in family than in a bank account. they continue to model that even today as they actively and consistently engage my kids.
it was a good night indeed.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
bicycles and bruises
yesterday when i got home from the office i asked my daughter if she wanted to go ride bikes. heaven knows i need the exercise and she just recently learned how to ride without training wheels. there was a positive in it for each of us. at one point i stopped to visit with a neighbor. the next thing i know she was getting a little farther away from me than i had hoped. i knew i could catch up with her before she would find herself in a place of potential danger so i wasn't worried. she on the other hand wasn't so sure. she isn't skilled enough at riding bikes to feel comfortable with looking back over her shoulder. she just assumed i wasn't there because she couldn't hear my voice. i caught up to where she was and still didn't say anything. i wanted to see how she handled the intersection that she was approcahing. we had talked about it a hundred times "come to a complete stop" and "look both ways" had been drilled into her head. we had practiced it MANY times. she knew what to do....i just stayed behind her to see if she would do what she knew to do.
sure enough she came to a complete stop. in the process of stopping and looking both ways she actually sort of came to a falling stop. as soon as she hit the pavement she started to cry. i was right there and so i asked her the natural dad question: "what did you hurt?" she wouldn't answer me so i persisted. eventually she was able to communicate the source of her tears. she was crying because she thought i had left her. she feared she was all alone and suddenly that little street we had ridden down a hundred times seemes a lot bigger....a lot scarier. she thought i had left her all alone.
APPLICATION: i know every story breaks down at some point so bear with me. in that moment i realized a couple of things.
1. God is always close by. He is there even when He is silent. sometimes He lets us fall. sometimes He wants to see if we are going to apply what He has been teaching us.....but He is always there.
2. i wonder if i would even notice if He wasn't with me? perhaps i have become a little too self-sufficient. perhaps i have convinced myself that i can handle my life on my own terms and in my own way. perhaps i need to want God near as much as my little girl wanted to me near her.
go dust off your bike and put a little air in the tires. God may just want to teach you something new...
sure enough she came to a complete stop. in the process of stopping and looking both ways she actually sort of came to a falling stop. as soon as she hit the pavement she started to cry. i was right there and so i asked her the natural dad question: "what did you hurt?" she wouldn't answer me so i persisted. eventually she was able to communicate the source of her tears. she was crying because she thought i had left her. she feared she was all alone and suddenly that little street we had ridden down a hundred times seemes a lot bigger....a lot scarier. she thought i had left her all alone.
APPLICATION: i know every story breaks down at some point so bear with me. in that moment i realized a couple of things.
1. God is always close by. He is there even when He is silent. sometimes He lets us fall. sometimes He wants to see if we are going to apply what He has been teaching us.....but He is always there.
2. i wonder if i would even notice if He wasn't with me? perhaps i have become a little too self-sufficient. perhaps i have convinced myself that i can handle my life on my own terms and in my own way. perhaps i need to want God near as much as my little girl wanted to me near her.
go dust off your bike and put a little air in the tires. God may just want to teach you something new...
Thursday, February 19, 2009
do it
life is fleeting. we've all heard it said before and there are those times when we catch a glimpse of that reality for ourselves. how many times have you been at a funeral and told one of your cousins that "we need to get together more often" or looked your grandma in the eyes while telling her your sorry for only coming to see her when people die? it is an issue that we all face because we are so busy. we assume people will be around when we get good and ready to go see them. sometimes we may even feel some offense toward someone and quietly, yet vindictively say to ourselves that if they want to see us they know where we live.
over the past month i have attended a good number of funerals. for some of the families the loss was expected while for others they never saw it coming. in both cases i overheard people apologizing for their busyness and lack of connection. i heard them making promises that the cynic in me believes they will never keep. i can only assume that for the majority of those making promises their intent is pure but their follow through will be lacking. i know this to be true because i am one of those people.
as you go throughout the day let me encourage you to do something. call the people that need to be called. write a letter to the people that need a letter. cancel your plans for the weekend to go play golf or shopping and take the grand kids to see their grandparents. shoot an e-mail to a friend that probably thinks you've fallen off the face of the earth. give your kids a hug....a long one that reminds them that you love them and will always be there for them. leave the office early....tell your boss you have an emergency at your house. if you haven't been home much then you really do have an emergency....your family is probably dying to see you.
all this to say do it! do the things you will regret later if you choose to stay too busy to do them today. say what needs to be said before the funeral and begin to live out the fullness of life.
over the past month i have attended a good number of funerals. for some of the families the loss was expected while for others they never saw it coming. in both cases i overheard people apologizing for their busyness and lack of connection. i heard them making promises that the cynic in me believes they will never keep. i can only assume that for the majority of those making promises their intent is pure but their follow through will be lacking. i know this to be true because i am one of those people.
as you go throughout the day let me encourage you to do something. call the people that need to be called. write a letter to the people that need a letter. cancel your plans for the weekend to go play golf or shopping and take the grand kids to see their grandparents. shoot an e-mail to a friend that probably thinks you've fallen off the face of the earth. give your kids a hug....a long one that reminds them that you love them and will always be there for them. leave the office early....tell your boss you have an emergency at your house. if you haven't been home much then you really do have an emergency....your family is probably dying to see you.
all this to say do it! do the things you will regret later if you choose to stay too busy to do them today. say what needs to be said before the funeral and begin to live out the fullness of life.
Saturday, February 7, 2009
out on a limb....
i ran across a cool idea this morning on a blog that was forwarded to me from a friend. i thought i would give it a shot....
send me your questions....perhaps you have a question that has been nagging at you about life, family, anger, forgiveness, God, etc....
i know i don't have all the answers so when in doubt i will enlist people along the way to help respond from a biblical perspective.
i will keep your confidence by not saying who asks what question so feel free to dig deep.
i'm looking forward to hearing from you.
send questions to rwade@clifec.com
send me your questions....perhaps you have a question that has been nagging at you about life, family, anger, forgiveness, God, etc....
i know i don't have all the answers so when in doubt i will enlist people along the way to help respond from a biblical perspective.
i will keep your confidence by not saying who asks what question so feel free to dig deep.
i'm looking forward to hearing from you.
send questions to rwade@clifec.com
Friday, February 6, 2009
satisfied in Him
the student pastor at our church, Casey Coats, shared these thoughts in a devotional that we send out everyday. i thought this was powerful and worthy of sharing with my blog readers.....
“God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.”
John Piper offered this statement in his book, Desiring God, and it has stuck with me since I first read it. The concept is one that is contrary to what many think about Christianity. Some people believe that God wants us to follow his commandments, which make our lives less enjoyable, for His glory. Under this mentality, God is most glorified when we are most miserable!
Fortunately, that is the exact opposite of the truth. Hebrews 11:6 states, “And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.” This verse states that there are two essential things to believe about God: 1) that he exists (that’s an easy one!) and 2) that he rewards those who seek him. Isn’t it interesting that according to this verse, the way that you please God is by expecting to be rewarded by him. That is truly alternative thinking. Psalm 37:4 reinforces this principle, stating, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
Good Christian boys and girls have long been taught that seeking their own happiness is wrong, sinful in fact. These scriptures teach us the exact opposite. It is good to seek your own happiness, so long as your happiness is in God! Who would want to believe in a god whom the closer and closer you get to the more and more miserable you become? When we seek God life gets better. Your circumstances may not get better, but your life does. John 10:10 says that Jesus came to give us life abundantly. Matthew 6:33 says that if you seek God, you won’t have to worry about anything else because God will give it all to you. Upon reading these verses it really does seem that God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him, so seek God and request that he make you happy. That is what pleases Him.
(if you would like to be added to our daily devotional e-mail distribution group please e-mail c|Life at info@clifec.com and simply put add to devo list in the subject line)
“God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.”
John Piper offered this statement in his book, Desiring God, and it has stuck with me since I first read it. The concept is one that is contrary to what many think about Christianity. Some people believe that God wants us to follow his commandments, which make our lives less enjoyable, for His glory. Under this mentality, God is most glorified when we are most miserable!
Fortunately, that is the exact opposite of the truth. Hebrews 11:6 states, “And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.” This verse states that there are two essential things to believe about God: 1) that he exists (that’s an easy one!) and 2) that he rewards those who seek him. Isn’t it interesting that according to this verse, the way that you please God is by expecting to be rewarded by him. That is truly alternative thinking. Psalm 37:4 reinforces this principle, stating, “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
Good Christian boys and girls have long been taught that seeking their own happiness is wrong, sinful in fact. These scriptures teach us the exact opposite. It is good to seek your own happiness, so long as your happiness is in God! Who would want to believe in a god whom the closer and closer you get to the more and more miserable you become? When we seek God life gets better. Your circumstances may not get better, but your life does. John 10:10 says that Jesus came to give us life abundantly. Matthew 6:33 says that if you seek God, you won’t have to worry about anything else because God will give it all to you. Upon reading these verses it really does seem that God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him, so seek God and request that he make you happy. That is what pleases Him.
(if you would like to be added to our daily devotional e-mail distribution group please e-mail c|Life at info@clifec.com and simply put add to devo list in the subject line)
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
i am lion....hear me roar
today at lunch i was engaged in a conversation that reminded me of a priniciple that i, as well as many others, would be wise to remember:
you can't be in authority if you can't be under authority
i hope you will take the time to really marinate in that thought. i believe that every person regardless of age, race, profession and stage of life can benefit from realizing the truth of this statement. all too often i find myself longing for control. i think there is something in all of us that wants to be "in charge" "in control" "in authority." we all want to be the "boss" of something or someone.
i remember my days as a youth minister. i can't tell you the number of times i had to deal with a discipline issue and in the process heard a teenager say "you're not the boss of me." i can also remember adults along the way that were really hard on the students. at their core they loved the kids but saw their "position" as an opportunity to exercise "power" and "authority." what they didn't realize is how they actually undermined their authority in the process. on top of that i, as their authority, had coached them on how to deal with and respond to students. by ignoring my lead they wound up negating their authority and losing their influence. sad but true.
everyone is under at least one authority. most of us find oursleves under the authority of many. perhaps it is a parent, a teacher, a manager, a ceo, a board or any number of other people but we are all under authority. how are you currently submitting to the authorities that God has placed in your life? if you were the parent, the teacher, the manager, the ceo, the board, etc and you had someone like you working under you....would you want to keep them around?
as we go about our lives we, especially Christians, really need to evaluate how willing we are to submit graciously to the authorities that God has placed in our lives. humility and meekness are characteristics God expects to see in His children. i'm convinced that when we are willing to submit to the authorities in our lives God will then be willing to trust us to lead others the way He does.....with loving kindness and compasison. how are we doing?
you can't be in authority if you can't be under authority
i hope you will take the time to really marinate in that thought. i believe that every person regardless of age, race, profession and stage of life can benefit from realizing the truth of this statement. all too often i find myself longing for control. i think there is something in all of us that wants to be "in charge" "in control" "in authority." we all want to be the "boss" of something or someone.
i remember my days as a youth minister. i can't tell you the number of times i had to deal with a discipline issue and in the process heard a teenager say "you're not the boss of me." i can also remember adults along the way that were really hard on the students. at their core they loved the kids but saw their "position" as an opportunity to exercise "power" and "authority." what they didn't realize is how they actually undermined their authority in the process. on top of that i, as their authority, had coached them on how to deal with and respond to students. by ignoring my lead they wound up negating their authority and losing their influence. sad but true.
everyone is under at least one authority. most of us find oursleves under the authority of many. perhaps it is a parent, a teacher, a manager, a ceo, a board or any number of other people but we are all under authority. how are you currently submitting to the authorities that God has placed in your life? if you were the parent, the teacher, the manager, the ceo, the board, etc and you had someone like you working under you....would you want to keep them around?
as we go about our lives we, especially Christians, really need to evaluate how willing we are to submit graciously to the authorities that God has placed in our lives. humility and meekness are characteristics God expects to see in His children. i'm convinced that when we are willing to submit to the authorities in our lives God will then be willing to trust us to lead others the way He does.....with loving kindness and compasison. how are we doing?
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
everybody find a study buddy
i was reading an article this morning and there was a line in it that caused me to pause. the line wasn't earth shattering or revolutionizing but it was a great reminder of some Biblical truth. here's the line:
Christianity is a team sport, not an individual event - on any given day, every Christian needs help and every Christian has some help to give. We have all failed as solo disciples for a very simple reason: Jesus doesn't have any solo disciples. Nate Larkin
last week was an interesting week. i wrestled with the same tension that the apostle paul spoke about in Romans 7:14-25
14We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. 15I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. 17As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. 18I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. 19For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. 20Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. 21So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22For in my inner being I delight in God's law; 23but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. 24What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? 25Thanks be to God—through Jesus Christ our Lord!
have you ever been there? you find yourself doing things, thinking things, saying things that you know are wrong....yet do them, think them, say them anyway? i realize nate larkin's line wasn't pulled straight from scripture but the overall thought certainly finds credibility in the scripture. we tend to fall more frequently when we walk alone.
somewhere along the way christians have been duped into believing perfection is rewarded. if we will just hide our hurts and our failures then people won't know....and we will be perceived as flawless illustrations of God's ______________. i'm tempted to put grace in the blank but if there are no struggles/failures/issues then there really is no need for grace.
i'm in no way suggesting we sin so that grace might increase (paul had something to say about that as well). as i wrestle through these thoughts, albeit scattered thoughts, i know we need other believers to do more than simply correct and rebuke. the church has gotten very good at those 2 things. i think what the church needs to develop is a spirit of accountability among its people. a spirit of community.
Christianity is a team sport, not an individual event - on any given day, every Christian needs help and every Christian has some help to give. We have all failed as solo disciples for a very simple reason: Jesus doesn't have any solo disciples. Nate Larkin
last week was an interesting week. i wrestled with the same tension that the apostle paul spoke about in Romans 7:14-25
14We know that the law is spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. 15I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. 16And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. 17As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. 18I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. 19For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. 20Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. 21So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. 22For in my inner being I delight in God's law; 23but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. 24What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? 25Thanks be to God—through Jesus Christ our Lord!
have you ever been there? you find yourself doing things, thinking things, saying things that you know are wrong....yet do them, think them, say them anyway? i realize nate larkin's line wasn't pulled straight from scripture but the overall thought certainly finds credibility in the scripture. we tend to fall more frequently when we walk alone.
somewhere along the way christians have been duped into believing perfection is rewarded. if we will just hide our hurts and our failures then people won't know....and we will be perceived as flawless illustrations of God's ______________. i'm tempted to put grace in the blank but if there are no struggles/failures/issues then there really is no need for grace.
i'm in no way suggesting we sin so that grace might increase (paul had something to say about that as well). as i wrestle through these thoughts, albeit scattered thoughts, i know we need other believers to do more than simply correct and rebuke. the church has gotten very good at those 2 things. i think what the church needs to develop is a spirit of accountability among its people. a spirit of community.
Thursday, January 22, 2009
transfer of power
i was amazed on tuesday as i watched the inauguration of barak obama. regardless of which side of the aisle you find yourself everyone must agree that it was truly an historic event. inaugurating a new president always begins a new chapter in our american history a new opportunity to leverage our influence around the world. even the most volatile of obama's opposition must have paused and caught a glimpse of what was happening.
as america's first black president (and I know he is actually only half black so please don't e-mail me any corrective responses) it should help to set a new tone across the america's diverse landscape. those from the african american community will certainly know that whatever sins our forefathers may have committed against their forefathers is now in the past. the office of the presidency is no longer a post reserved for a white man. america has always been known as the melting pot of the world and tuesday went a long way to help free an entire race from past, in many cases even present, oppression. i think it was a good day for america....not so sure the next 4 years of liberal policy will be best but it was for many other reasons a great day for america.
i'm not a fan of barak obama. truth be told i would have liked to have seen mike huckabee standing on that podium but that wasn't the way the thing went down. so, what is my new responsiblity? as an american how should i try to support my president even though i disagree with him on most fronts politically? time will tell and hopefully my convictions will show me when i need to fall in line and follow his lead but one thing i know i must do....not only as an american but as a christian and that is pray for him everyday. pray that God would give him the conviction, mercy, vision, grace and moral clarity to lead our nation.
p.s. i love the speech W gave when he landed in midland on inauguration day. i will paraphrase his words below:
you may or may not agree with many or most of the decisions i made as president and that is fine. but you need to know that when i walked out of the oval office this morning i left with the same values and convictions i had 8 years ago when i walked into it for the first time as president. i never took opinion polls to help me determine what i thought was right. sometimes what I did wasn't popular. But that's OK. I always did what I thought was right. when I get home tonight and look in the mirror, I am not going to regret what I see--except maybe some gray hair.
as america's first black president (and I know he is actually only half black so please don't e-mail me any corrective responses) it should help to set a new tone across the america's diverse landscape. those from the african american community will certainly know that whatever sins our forefathers may have committed against their forefathers is now in the past. the office of the presidency is no longer a post reserved for a white man. america has always been known as the melting pot of the world and tuesday went a long way to help free an entire race from past, in many cases even present, oppression. i think it was a good day for america....not so sure the next 4 years of liberal policy will be best but it was for many other reasons a great day for america.
i'm not a fan of barak obama. truth be told i would have liked to have seen mike huckabee standing on that podium but that wasn't the way the thing went down. so, what is my new responsiblity? as an american how should i try to support my president even though i disagree with him on most fronts politically? time will tell and hopefully my convictions will show me when i need to fall in line and follow his lead but one thing i know i must do....not only as an american but as a christian and that is pray for him everyday. pray that God would give him the conviction, mercy, vision, grace and moral clarity to lead our nation.
p.s. i love the speech W gave when he landed in midland on inauguration day. i will paraphrase his words below:
you may or may not agree with many or most of the decisions i made as president and that is fine. but you need to know that when i walked out of the oval office this morning i left with the same values and convictions i had 8 years ago when i walked into it for the first time as president. i never took opinion polls to help me determine what i thought was right. sometimes what I did wasn't popular. But that's OK. I always did what I thought was right. when I get home tonight and look in the mirror, I am not going to regret what I see--except maybe some gray hair.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
sleeping bags and barbies
tonight my 6 year old daughter is having a friend spend the night. for the last week or so she has been asking us "how many more days before peyton is coming over?" she has really been looking forward to today. this moment. she is absolutely giddy.
i have been sitting back and relaxing a little this afternoon but can't escape the sound of two 6 year old girls living in community. you heard me.....they are fleshing out what it looks like to thrive in community. i would guess that within the next 12 hours we will have laughing, crying, arguing, playing, eating, movie watching and a bunch of other stuff. add all that up and you get community.
a few days ago a friend of mine and I were talking about this thing called community. in many ways it is the new buzz word in church circles. as we carried on our conversation we realized that even though we talk about the need for community, understand the potential impact of community and the real dangers of living outside of community we really don't know how to define this cultural phenomena. try as i might i just can't seem to squeeze the vast reality of community into a small little box that i can use in a message on sunday mornings. it is too organic....too complex.
this afternoon God has helped me to get a little clearer understanding of community by listening to two 6 year old girls play with their barbies. how so? well, i know after they play, eat, sleep, fight, cry, argue and laugh together they will be closer friends than they were yesterday. the matrix that is their lives intersects and they establish a new bond....one that is not easily broken.
need community? yes....
i have been sitting back and relaxing a little this afternoon but can't escape the sound of two 6 year old girls living in community. you heard me.....they are fleshing out what it looks like to thrive in community. i would guess that within the next 12 hours we will have laughing, crying, arguing, playing, eating, movie watching and a bunch of other stuff. add all that up and you get community.
a few days ago a friend of mine and I were talking about this thing called community. in many ways it is the new buzz word in church circles. as we carried on our conversation we realized that even though we talk about the need for community, understand the potential impact of community and the real dangers of living outside of community we really don't know how to define this cultural phenomena. try as i might i just can't seem to squeeze the vast reality of community into a small little box that i can use in a message on sunday mornings. it is too organic....too complex.
this afternoon God has helped me to get a little clearer understanding of community by listening to two 6 year old girls play with their barbies. how so? well, i know after they play, eat, sleep, fight, cry, argue and laugh together they will be closer friends than they were yesterday. the matrix that is their lives intersects and they establish a new bond....one that is not easily broken.
need community? yes....
Saturday, January 17, 2009
purple cow
google is taking over the world. it is really unbelievable when you start to discover how much power and influence google has acquired/earned in the last few years. when it comes to the digital world they are large and in charge.
what is it that sets them apart? they are full of purple cows. what is a purple cow you might ask....
bestselling author seth godin wrote a book entitled 'purple cow." the premise of the book is simply add distinction to avoid extinction. if you are driving to work and see a brown cow you probably won't tell anyone about it when you arrive at the office. if you are driving to work and see a purple cow grazing in a pasture you would definitely talk about it at work. he suggests that businesses need to be creators of the purple cows.
back to google: a few of their purple cows include google maps, streetview, google docs, voice and video chat in gmail, and the list goes on and on. when people first experience the street view feature of google maps they look up every address they know, tell others and wonder how in the world they made the feature possible.
as i think about purple cows i can't help but wonder why the church isn't the creator of more purple cows. certainly there are some churches out there that are doing some great things. one example would be the youversion Bible. but the larger church community is all too comfortable maintaining status quo and only utilizing tools after someone else has made created them.
so here's the question: what idea has been rolling around in your head that you have been scared to share with anyone? what vision do you have for something new that you refuse to mention out of fear that it will not be possible?
let's do something new....let's dream big....let's step out on a ledge and see what God may birth out of the ideas He has given us.
send me your ideas......let's see what's next!
what is it that sets them apart? they are full of purple cows. what is a purple cow you might ask....
bestselling author seth godin wrote a book entitled 'purple cow." the premise of the book is simply add distinction to avoid extinction. if you are driving to work and see a brown cow you probably won't tell anyone about it when you arrive at the office. if you are driving to work and see a purple cow grazing in a pasture you would definitely talk about it at work. he suggests that businesses need to be creators of the purple cows.
back to google: a few of their purple cows include google maps, streetview, google docs, voice and video chat in gmail, and the list goes on and on. when people first experience the street view feature of google maps they look up every address they know, tell others and wonder how in the world they made the feature possible.
as i think about purple cows i can't help but wonder why the church isn't the creator of more purple cows. certainly there are some churches out there that are doing some great things. one example would be the youversion Bible. but the larger church community is all too comfortable maintaining status quo and only utilizing tools after someone else has made created them.
so here's the question: what idea has been rolling around in your head that you have been scared to share with anyone? what vision do you have for something new that you refuse to mention out of fear that it will not be possible?
let's do something new....let's dream big....let's step out on a ledge and see what God may birth out of the ideas He has given us.
send me your ideas......let's see what's next!
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